The Marriage & Motherhood Podcast: How To Overcome The Rut and Start Fresh In Your Marriage
Embracing Change in Marriage and Motherhood this Fall
As we are well into Fall now, this episode was inspired by the falling leaves I see on my daily walk and how it is so symbolic of learning to let go of what doesn't serve us and making room for growth, much like the beautiful trees shedding their leaves.
Fall as a Symbol of Renewal
Living in Georgia, I'm mesmerized by the diverse and brilliant colors around me—it's a breathtaking contrast to my old home in California. This got me thinking about how fall is a perfect time to reflect on what we might need to prune in our marriages, just as we might in gardening. It's about identifying what's not contributing to the vibrant life we envision with our partners.
What Do You Need To Allow To Fall Away in Your Marriage?
Consider the routines or habits that might be hindering your relationship. Are there moments when you've slipped into autopilot—like spending solitary time during bedtime rather than connecting? Reflect on aspects like these that might feel familiar but aren't nourishing your marriage. It's not just about cutting back; it's about making intentional choices to foster growth and intimacy.
Ask yourself, what habits are worth shedding for the sake of your relationship? Marriage is a co-creation between you and your partner. If you notice parts that don't align with the marriage you aspire to have, now is the time to address them. Replace these with habits that help you build the marriage you desire.
Creating a New Norm
What goals do you and your partner have for your relationship? Do you crave regular date nights, open communication, or simply more shared laughter? Envision this. Embrace habits that support this vision and let them grow into your norm. It's about forming new patterns that define the reality you want—a marriage that's both fulfilling and serves as an example to your children.
Balancing Marriage and Parenthood
We often believe that we need to choose between being good partners or good parents, but the truth is, it's not about choosing one over the other. It's about creating harmony between both roles. You can have a thriving marriage alongside being great parents. The key is to model the relationship you want your kids to aspire to—it should be life-enhancing for everyone involved.
The Effort and Joy of Marriage
Marriage requires effort, but it doesn't have to be consistently tough. The aim is to cultivate more enjoyable, shared experiences than challenging ones. Take this fall as an opportunity to assess your relationship honestly. Adjust what isn't working and embrace an experimental mindset towards co-creating your future together.
Remember, I'm always here if you want support. Feel free to reach out. Let this season inspire you to make future-focused decisions for a marriage that's deeply satisfying and aligned with your dreams.
Keep in touch and share what changes you're planning to implement—your journey is inspiring and worth celebrating. Together, we can learn and grow in love and unity. And if you enjoyed this reflection, sharing it with someone who could benefit from this perspective would mean the world. Leave your thoughts, and if you love these insights, consider leaving a rating or a review. I'm thankful for your support, and I look forward to our next chat. Enjoy this beautiful fall to the fullest!
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