Marriage, like any aspect of life, isn't immune to change. Often, we find ourselves in situations we didn't plan for, and that leaves couples feeling stuck or frustrated. But here's the good news: change is not only possible, it's inevitable. Your relationship is already different from what it once was, and that means it can continue to evolve—in a direction that brings you closer to what you truly desire.

Acknowledge the Current Situation

Before we dive into solutions, it's crucial to recognize and accept where you currently stand. This acknowledgment is the first step towards transformation. If your marriage isn't heading in the direction you'd hoped, it's time to pause and reconsider what you really want. What does an ideal marriage look like to you? Identifying this vision sets the stage for creating actionable steps.

Setting Your Desired Course

Once you've envisioned the kind of relationship you want, you can work backwards to figure out the necessary...