The Marriage & Motherhood Podcast: How To Tell If It's Time To Work With A Marriage Professional
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In this episode, I dive into a topic that many of us navigate but sometimes hesitate to discuss openly: maintaining a fulfilling marriage after having kids. Life gets hectic, and while we do our best to keep the spark alive, sometimes calling in reinforcements can make all the difference. Letā€™s explore when it might be time to reach out for professional help and how to go about it.
Why Marriage Gets Tough After Kids
Isn't it something how life changes dramatically after kids? The dynamic between you and your partner shifts, and suddenly, those spare moments to enjoy each other feel far away. Responsibilities pile up, and our time is devoured by logistics rather than love notes. If you find yourself nodding along, you're not alone. Many couples experience communication breakdowns, unmet expectations, and a dwindling connection. It's all too common for intimacy to take a back seat as exhaustion levels rise and financial stress surfaces.
Recognizing When It's Time for Help
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The Marriage & Motherhood Podcast: Small Changes To Improve Your Marriage
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Marriage, like any aspect of life, isn't immune to change. Often, we find ourselves in situations we didn't plan for, and that leaves couples feeling stuck or frustrated. But here's the good news: change is not only possible, it's inevitable. Your relationship is already different from what it once was, and that means it can continue to evolveā€”in a direction that brings you closer to what you truly desire.
Acknowledge the Current Situation
Before we dive into solutions, it's crucial to recognize and accept where you currently stand. This acknowledgment is the first step towards transformation. If your marriage isn't heading in the direction you'd hoped, it's time to pause and reconsider what you really want. What does an ideal marriage look like to you? Identifying this vision sets the stage for creating actionable steps.
Setting Your Desired Course
Once you've envisioned the kind of relationship you want, you can work backwards to figure out the necessary changes. Ask your...