Does every argument make you feel more and more disconnected from your husband?
 
Do they make you question the longevity and security of your marriage?
 
Conflict is inevitable but the outcome of conflict doesn't have to look like your marriage falling apart. When you know how to use conflict to the benefit of your relationship, you can actually grow closer together as a couple.
 
You can resolve issues as a team and face arguments head on because you know that you'll come out of it together stronger.

In this week's episode of The Marriage & Motherhood Podcast, I share:

• The different outcomes of different approaches to conflict
• What you can do to reconnect after a fight

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In every marriage, there are times when communication becomes a challenge. You might find yourself falling into unhealthy patterns when you're upset, leading to recurring arguments and feelings of disconnection. Blaming, criticizing, getting defensive, disrespecting your partner, and assuming are all common pitfalls that can hinder open communication and emotional intimacy.

If you would like to learn more about the 5 unhealthy communication habits, check out episode 70 first and come back to listen to this.

In this week's episode of The Marriage & Motherhood Podcast, I share essential healthy communication habits you can start practicing to replace the unhealthy ones to empower you to build a deeper connection with your spouse and resolve conflicts more effectively. 

Not all communication is healthy communication when it comes to talking to your husband or partner. There are specific approaches and strategies to having better conversations with your significant other especially when you're in an argument.

More specifically, there are 5 communication habits that are unhealthy and can end up setting your relationship back by motivating your partner to get defensive and put their walls up when communication is supposed to bring you closer and strengthen the connection you share.

In this week's episode of The Marriage & Motherhood Podcast, I share:

• 5 unhealthy communication habits you need to be aware of
• What each habit sounds like

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Communication can be hard and conflict is not fun. To most of us, it feels like a waste of time, something we'd rather avoid having to experience because it doesn't feel good at all. It's emotionally draining, it's uncomfortable, and then you have to get over that awkward stage between not being ok as a couple and being ok again.

As a mom, it already seems like there isn't enough time in the day for just the normal day to day stuff so we definitely don't have the time to have arguments with our spouse. But when conflict is done the right way, it can actually save you time because it can prevent future arguments from happening. However, in order to do that you've got to know the two types of conflict there are and see which kind you're engaging in majority of the time so you can start fighting the right way - the way that benefits your relationship.

In this week's episode of The Marriage & Motherhood Podcast, I share:

• The two types of conflict
• How to tell which...

Communication styles can vary greatly between individuals, and understanding these differences is crucial for effective communication within a marriage, especially for moms who are juggling multiple roles and responsibilities. By recognizing and appreciating each other's communication styles, you can enhance understanding and connection in your relationship.

In this week's episode of The Marriage & Motherhood Podcast, I share:

- the top 5 communication style differences couples experience
- how you can work through differences to grow your communication together

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Communication can help you build your marriage up to be connected, strong, and resilient, but only when you've learned how to communicate with the purpose of connection and building intimacy through communication.

Without intimacy, communication can feel pretty lonely in a relationship.

When all you talk about is logistics and responsibility, communication can feel empty and transactional.

In this week's episode of The Marriage & Motherhood Podcast, I share:

- what it means to communicate to connect
- two questions my husband and I asked each other to nurture our connection

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So many couples have the same experience after becoming parents. They grow apart, argue more often, and they forget how to have fun together.  The common thing to do is to start pointing the finger at your husband and see what they're doing wrong. This is where most couples go wrong when trying to turn their marriage around.

Have you ever stopped to question whether what you believe is normal in a marriage is actually only common, instead of healthy?

Truth is, our parents' marriage and the marriages of those we have surrounded ourselves with make up what we believe to be normal in marriage.

So if arguing was the only way conflict was ever resolved, you might believe that every couple argues all the time - when this isn't true at all. A lot of couples argue, but there are better ways to navigate conflict than arguing.

In this week's episode of The Marriage & Motherhood Podcast, I share:

• The most common experience of marriage after kids
• Normal/common vs Healthy
• Outdated beliefs on marriage

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Have you ever noticed how talking about normal day to day stuff, it's super easy to be respectful?

But during conflict, it's much much harder? Like you become an entirely different person?

Well, respect is the foundation of a happy and successful marriage and if you can learn how to maintain that even during conflict, arguments can start go a lot smoother for you.

In this week's episode of The Marriage & Motherhood Podcast, I share:

• The purpose of conflict
• What respect does and doesn't look like
• Why it's challenging to stay respectful during conflict
• The one thing you can do to make your arguments more respectful

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Do you often feel resentful towards your husband because it seems like you do SO much where you feel like you can't ever shut your brain off and you feel burned out while your husband seems to have time to go to the gym, watch his sports, and see his friends?

If you have been realizing you need to practice more self care but haven't figured out where to find the time, tune into this episode.

In this week's episode of The Marriage & Motherhood Podcast, I share:

• What the invisible load of motherhood is
• Why you should stop assuming your spouse knows what you need
• Why communicating is so important so that you can feel supported
• What happens when you fail to communicate

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